Doing vs. Trying: How to Use Yoga for Chronic Illness and Injury
If you are living with a chronic illness or serious injury, you know what it feels like to lose more than your physical health. You know what it feels like losing control over your daily life, the gradual fading of joy, the threat to your personal independence, and the quiet fear that you are losing your mental clarity along with your physical capacity.
Despite endless doctor appointments, laboratory testing, prodding, and poking, you still feel terrible. Whether you have received a definitive diagnosis or remain in medical limbo, the daily reality is the same. Your medical team prescribes a new medication or orders another physical therapy protocol, and you comply without hesitation. What choice do you have? You simply want to feel better and regain some semblance of normal life.
Deep down, you know you should be more actively involved in your health maintenance and recovery, but previous attempts to take charge may have left you feeling even worse. Waking in the morning from dreaming of being whole, a profound sadness settles in as your mind clears and reality asserts itself. As the day progresses, an emotional burden weighs as heavily on you as your physical symptoms, leaving you at a loss for what steps to take next. When you lose your health, you lose your fundamental sense of self.
I know this terrain intimately. When I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis after practicing and teaching yoga for decades, I felt as though the rug had been yanked out from under me. Desperate to reverse my decline, I pushed harder, applying intense willpower and aggressive effort, only to find that forceful exertion made my symptoms dramatically worse. Struggling against my own body brought only physical exhaustion and depression, ultimately leading me to abandon my practice entirely.
The turning point came when an acquaintance, who was an incomplete quadriplegic, asked if I would guide her through the adaptive protocols in my book Recovery Yoga .
Reluctantly, I agreed—finding myself in the surreal position of coaching someone else through the very lessons I had deserted in my own life. Guiding her forced me to look at yoga through an entirely new lens. It was during these sessions that I truly grasped the profound physiological difference between doing yoga and trying to do yoga. I was able to impress upon her that she did not need to try to do anything, but always, in every lesson, just to simply begin where she was and to use that place to begin her exploration of yoga based movement.
"Trying" is rooted in willpower, muscle tension, and striving for what your body currently cannot execute. When you try to force a posture or reach beyond your present physical threshold, your sympathetic nervous system perceives a threat, triggering a subtle fight-or-flight stress response. This protective muscular guard creates friction, systemic inflammation, and metabolic waste, leaving you drained and sore.
"Doing," on the other hand, begins by meeting your body exactly where it is in the present moment, working skillfully and non-judgmentally with what you can do. This distinction may sound like simple semantics, but its physiological and psychological impact is transformative.
For anyone managing chronic illness or physical trauma, appropriate yoga begins not with complex postures, but with basic breathing techniques that speak directly to your nervous system. Conscious breathing sends an immediate signal that it is safe to let go. Downshifting out of that constant fight-or-flight state eases chronic muscle tension, quiets a racing heart, and lowers stress levels—creating the quiet baseline that helps you move toward better physical function and increased peace of mind.
By focusing exclusively on what is possible right now rather than grieving what used to be, you establish a reliable foundation for future progress. Each small, non-forceful movement performed within your pain-free range restores neural pathways and helps you rebuild trust in your body. Ultimately, intelligent yoga is not about athletic performance, speed, or extraordinary flexibility; it is a systematic method for maximizing your current physical potential while minimizing unnecessary strain.
